After Amanda Huffman left the Air Force in 2013 after 6 years of service, she traded in combat boots for a diaper bag. But the change from full-time Airman to stay-at-home-mom wasn’t smooth or easy. Amanda felt adrift and without purpose.

“I needed something because I was going crazy being a stay at home mom,” she says. “I lost my identity when I left the military. I needed something to do for me outside of taking care of my son.

During her deployments, Amanda had loved writing letters home, creating a record of her experiences on active duty for herself and her family. Jumping off from there, she launched Airman to Mom to help people understand her journey and build a community of support.

“For a long time, I didn’t want to write about being a veteran” Amanda explains. “I tried to write about travel and be a mom blogger. People were more interested in that stuff.”

Air Force Veteran Shares Stories of Women in the Military

In 2017, she found her mission and her voice sharing the stories of fellow female service members and veterans. That year, Amanda launched a 31-day series focusing on publishing women’s military stories.

“I started collecting deployment stories in 2017 for a 31-day series focused on deployments,” she shares. “I ended getting responses from primarily women and I was fascinated by their stories.”

This one 31-day blogging series was the launching pad for Amanda’s book and podcast.

“I wanted to hear more stories,” she says. “A friend suggested that I just do it as yearly series and just do one a week. Then we started talking about podcasting.”

Sharing Female Veterans’ Stories Becomes a Mission

One thing led to another and in 2018 Amanda took the next step.

“I took all my original interviews and turned them into the book, Women of the Military, which is on Amazon. A lot of those are anonymous. A lot of them are still in the military or have hard stories they don’t want to share publicly.”

Women of the Military is available on Amazon in print and digital formats, as well as on Amanda’s own website as an ebook.

Amanda launched her podcast, Women of the Military, in 2019. Initially, women seemed hesitant to share their honest stories of military service.

Some are still on active duty. Others have tender or intensely private stories that they don’t want shared publicly.

“Only two of my original interviews wanted to be on the podcast. Now I have people knocking down my door to be on the podcast!”

Supporting Female Veterans & Future Service Members

Amanda’s main mission is to show that women serve fiercely and proudly. Doing this work feeds her soul and fuels her passion to collect more stories.

“I love to learn and it filled me up. I loved to learn about the history of the military and women’s history.”

Sign up to share your story on the Women of the Military podcast!

Podcasts listeners include current and former military members, as well as those considering military service.

Whoever is listening, Amanda’s goal is to show the many ways that women serve the United States.

“I want people to know that the reason why women are doing what they are doing today is because of what women have done (in the past),” Amanda explains. “Women have been doing all this stuff. We could go into places that men couldn’t go because we’re women, so the military changed the policies.”

So many of the stories on Amanda’s podcast dispell myths about what women can or can’t do. Sharing these experiences might help other women consider military service.

“Sometimes when you are a woman and you say you want to join the military, your family says ‘No,'” she explains. (It’s r)eally good to connect (with) the next generation with women who have served. (The podcast) helps the young women who are looking to join find resources and connections.”

Amanda hopes that by listening to the podcast, everyone will learn more about the true history of women in the military.

“(It’s c)orrecting people when they say things you know aren’t true. I think by listening to the podcast, they’ll learn a lot of the history of women in the military.”

Do you have a story to share with Amanda? Are you a fan of her podcast? Sound off in the comments!

It happens every single PCS: you’ve purged but have nowhere to put all the things you want to have leave your house.

Some of it is awesome quality, but you don’t want to go through the hassle of selling it. Other things are useable but well-loved. And then you have the random odds and ends from your pantry.

Where to bring all of this, well, stuff?

Enter Buy Nothing, a community-building movement that invites you to “gift” the things you’ve KonMaried from your house to your neighbors – for free! It’s literally the answer to everything.

Fall in Love with Your Buy Nothing Community

I’m a recent Buy Nothing group convert. And now I preach it’s gospel to anyone who will listen – Hello, Military Shoppers News friends!

Yes, it seems crazy. Give a whole bunch of your stuff away for free to your neighbors? Nuts!

There is a method to the madness, I promise.

The basic philosophy is pretty much “one person’s no longer needed item is another person’s treasure.” All those random spices and sauces you collected in your PCS prep purge? Someone might really enjoy cooking with them!

Support Your Neighbors with Buy Nothing

Buy Nothing also keeps those gifts hyper-local, too. As in within a few streets or blocks of your house.

Every Buy Nothing group is neighborhood-based, often times by established subdivisions, city districts or zip codes.

Each time you gift items from your home, one of your neighbors picks it up to use in their home. When they’re done, they might opt to post it in the Buy Nothing group again to find another new home. In this way, each item can get used by many families before it’s worn out!

Connect to Your Neighbors’ Gifts via Facebook

Sounds great! I get to off-load all the things I no longer want to people who can currently use them. Where do I sign up?

Actually, it’s all right on Facebook! Every group operates a private Facebook group. New members join by identifying two streets nearby (not revealing their actual address).

Everyone in the group can post “gifts,” or things they’re getting rid of, or “asks,” items they could use.

On gift posts, you can “bid” on the items you might want to claim. There can be clauses, like share a recipe you’ll make with this gift, in order to be considered. Other times, things are offered first-come, first-served.

If you are “gifted” the item(s) of your choice, you’ll connect with the donor to arrange a swap.

For asks, members will explain why or how they need the requested material(s). Sometimes, it might be needed for a short time – like air mattresses for overnight guests or a cocktail dress for a wedding. Other times it is items to keep – like missing ingredients for dinner that night or boots for a child.

Here’s Why I’m Obsessed with Buy Nothing

When we arrived back stateside in summer 2019, I received all of our HHG that had been in storage for three years. In other words, items I had learned to live without and mostly did not miss.

As each box was opened, I kept muttering the phrases: “Why did we keep this?” and “Where are we going to put this?”

The answer to both questions was a resounding “No clue.”

Enter Buy Nothing.

As I unwrapped those “no clue” items, I snapped a picture and posted it to my Buy Nothing group. That let people know it was available for gifting. Sometimes within minutes, I would have comments and replies asking to be considered for the item. And then each thing exited my house, into the grateful hands of a new owner!

100% awesome.

With very few exceptions, I was able to “gift” several moving boxes worth of items I no longer wanted or needed. No trip to the GoodWill. No selling or, let’s be real, attempting to sell.

Sample list of things I’ve gifted:

• Outgrown children’s clothes
• DVDs
• Books
• Decor
• Jane Austen action figure (yes, that’s a real thing)
• Shoes

I posted. It was claimed. And then it was just gone from my porch!

At first, I was just a gifter. As we’ve settled in and winter has arrived, I’ve turned into a giftee as well.

Three years in the sub-tropics didn’t really prepare us too well for, you know, cold and snow. My kids had approximately zero winter clothes or shoes.

Until I was gifted some via Buy Nothing.

I’ve also gratefully received:

• Home decor
• Potatoes, tomatoes, carrots and other veggies
• School uniforms
• Work clothes
• An entire wardrobe of barely-worn Lularoe (some new with tags!)

Will You Commit to Buy Nothing with Me?

My USMC husband was super skeptical at first.

“People just, like, give these things away? What’s the catch?”

There is no catch, except the extra cash in your wallet!

After realizing that Buy Nothing is a community based on saving money, he was hooked. Not having to spend on pricey school uniforms completely sold him on the concept.

In total, I would guess we’ve gifted several hundred dollars worth of things we’ll no longer need but that still had life left. On the other hand, we’ve also received about that much back in gifts. It really evens out!

Plus, we’re no longer storing all the things in our (very tiny) house. Once we’re done, the item moves to a new home.

Everyone likes saving money! And it’s a good way to make sure that things get all the way used up, too.

It’s also kind of made for military communities! We rely so much on each other generally. This just makes sure you’re being more economical in the process.

What’s your favorite way to reduce, reuse and recycle? Sound off in the comments!

According to recent coverage by MOAA, Tricare will soon be dropping thousands of prescriptions from coverage at MTFs and by mail. You’ll still be able to get the medications you need – just from a retail pharmacy and at full cost.

Will Tricare Still Cover Your Prescriptions?

These most recent changes follow on the heels of a shift started in fiscal year 2018. During the National Defense Authorization Act, the Defense Health Agency was authorized to move certain types of drugs to Tier 4, medications that are no longer covered in any way by Tricare. Their cost does not apply to the annual catastrophic cap either.

Tier 4 drugs are supposed to be limited to those that:

• Offer little to no benefit generally or relatively
• Are in danger of doing more harm than good
• Could be replaced by another drug
• Come at a higher cost than covered alternative medications

At first, this wasn’t a huge issue. The prescription medications impacted were used by relatively few beneficiaries, according to MOAA.

In August 2019, the first round of Tier 4 medications was announced. It included:

• Glumetza: an anti-diabetic medication
• Vimovo: used to treat various forms of arthritis
• Lexette: a psoriasis treatment

Relatively few of Tricare’s beneficiaries used these specific medications.

Widely Used Prescriptions Get Bumped to Tier 4

In November 2019, Dexilant, a GERD medication, was removed. This change impacted approximately 19,000 Tricare beneficiaries according to MOAA.

At the start of 2020, MOAA learned that Tricare and the DHA were considering moving Cialis and Viagra to the Tier 4 list. This decision was pending a final decision from the DHA director as of mid-January 2020.

A review panel voted 6-2 to remove the brand name medications from the formulary, or covered, drugs. Only the generic version of these drugs would remain available via Express Scripts or an MTF pharmacy.

This vote also determined that men over age 40 would not need prior authorization from their PCM to receive erectile dysfunction drugs. Men under age 40 or those with enlarged prostates would still need authorization.

In addition, this policy change would move other brand name and generic erectile dysfunction drugs to the Tier 4 list. Those could include:

• Stendra
• Staxyn
• Levitra
• all associated generics of these brand names

From Covered to Non-Covered

When this new tier of medications was announced for fiscal year 2018, a process for consideration was also released.

New drugs could be considered for the move to Tier 4 quarterly on a limited basis. This allowed DHA to identify reasonable generic or formulary alternatives to replace the possibly non-covered medication.

The removal of a medication’s coverage status would take place over an extended period. This would allow patients to consult with their doctors about alternative treatments.

Express Scripts, the prescription mailing service used by Tricare, would also notify beneficiaries of their medication’s tier change 30-60 days before the final switch. At that time, patients would also be informed of next steps to take to ensure continued care.

MOAA’s Concern Over Tier 4 Drug Changes

While there are checks in place to prevent a large number of beneficiaries from feeling the impact of a drug’s change in status, MOAA is concerned that this might not be enough.

They cite the 19,000 patients impacted by Dexilant’s Tier 4 status change in November 2019. There are currently three other formulary alternatives available that are comparable to Dexilant, per a January 29, 2020 search of the Tricare formulary database.

In addition, MOAA is concerned that the panel has not followed the 2018 policy language with fidelity. They especially point to the phrase “provide very little to no clinical effectiveness.” MOAA does not seem to support the idea that the targeted erectile dysfunction medications or the GERD medication meet this standard for exclusion from the formulary.

How often do you check to make sure your medication is still covered by Tricare? Sound off in the comments!

By Marguerite Cleveland

Facial hair except for mustaches is not allowed in all branches of the service but there are a few exceptions. The first is for medical reasons that affect shaving. The second reason is for religious reasons. Some special operators are allowed beards to blend in with local populations. Can you grow a beard in the military, the answer is no unless you have a sincerely held religious belief or you have a medical reason? It is important to note that the reason beards and facial hair are prohibited is due to the fact that respirators and chemical masks do not get a proper seal with facial hair. This can put the service member at risk. That is why it is required to be clean shaven every day.

Medical reasons for not shaving usually have to do with razor bumps where hair becomes ingrown due to shaving and primarily occurs in African Americans. In this case the beard is typically limited to 1/4 inch. Some branches of the service will allow a permanent profile for this condition but recently the Navy did away with permanent shaving waivers for sailors diagnosed with razor bumps. The reason being that facial hair hinders the effectiveness of breathing devices.

The Department of Defense Instruction (DoDI) 1300.17, Accommodation of Religious Practices Within the Military Services prescribes policy, procedures, and responsibilities for the accommodation of religious practices in the military services. DoDI 1300.17, paragraph 4.b, states “[r]equests for religious accommodation will be resolved in a timely manner and will be approved when accommodation would not adversely impact mission accomplishment, including military readiness, unit cohesion, good order, discipline, health and safety, or any other military requirement.” This regulation allows service members to apply for a waiver of grooming standards for religious accommodation.

These requests are evaluated on a case by case basis and there is quite a bit that goes into a decision. The first is evaluating if approved would the accommodation would impair the safe and effective operation of weapons, military equipment, or machinery; pose a health or safety hazard; interfere with the wear or proper function of special or protective clothing or equipment; or otherwise impair discipline, morale, unit cohesion, or accomplishment of the unit mission.

The next step is evaluating if a service member has a deep and sincere belief in a religious faith. The Department of Defense recognizes 221 religions including; heathenry, humanism, paganism, and Wicca. Requests for waivers regarding grooming go all the way up to the Secretary level for approval. Two recent cases one which was approved and one that was disapproved show how each case is unique.

In a case which was approved a soldier who practiced the Norse Pagan faith, a heathen religion received an approval for a beard waiver in accordance with his faith. In 2017, the Army recognized waivers for Sikh soldiers allowing them to honor their religious traditions. The Air Force also approved a waiver for a pagan Airman to allow him to grow a beard.

But not all requests are the same. SPC John Hoskins, a member of the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster which are known as Pastafarians, was recently denied a waiver even though he professed a deep and sincere belief in the Pastafarian faith. The reason for the refusal was that he had not demonstrated a sincerely held religious belief.

So although the military has relaxed the grooming standards for medical or religious reasons, the average service member will not be authorized to have a beard or facial hair other than a mustache.

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com