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Peep Some Fall Leaves Near These Military Bases

10/04/2019 By Meg Flanagan

The hills are alive with all the colors! At least they are if you live in certain bases and places. But (luckily) we can all travel to peep some fall leaves near these military bases!

Peep Some Fall Leaves Near These Military Bases

From mid-summer to late fall, military families can see gorgeous oranges, reds and golds throughout the US and around the world.

Joint Base Elmendorf-Richardson, Anchorage, AK

According to Amy Buschatz, Executive Editor of Military.com, head to Alaska super early for gorgeous fall foliage.

“It’s brilliant but short-lived,” she said. “The neat thing about Alaska is that often the fall foliage is on the ground because the mountains turn different colors, too.”

You can start enjoying beautiful leaves starting in mid-August. Just be sure to make your trip before mid-September, or you’ll miss this super short colorful season!

Naval Sub Base New London, CT

Even though this base is located along the coast in Groton, CT you can head out to the western side of the state for the most beautiful leaves in southern New England.

Trips to Discover recommends the Litchfield Hills for gorgeous hues!

Bangor Air Force Base, ME

Northern New England is known for stunning foliage, with the first leaves turning in late August and the last leaves falling sometime in October or November.

From Bangor, you can head west to the Green and White Mountains, part of the larger Appalachian Mountain Range. While you’re wandering around in the mountains, pick up some maple syrup and fresh-picked apples, too!

Presidio of Monterey Army Base, CA

Lucky you, living in Monterey! You’ve got a great seaside location and easier access to Napa and Sonoma, which is where the pretty leaves are at.

Not only will you enjoy the vibrant hues, there’s also the opportunity to sip some vino. Napa and Sonoma are famous worldwide for their high quality, diverse wines.

The Pentagon & Virginia Bases

Go west, military families! The Shenandoah Valley is one of the most popular places to peep foliage along winding mountains roads and through rural valleys.

Skyline Drive is the place to be, and it’s reasonably accessible from bases all over Virginia, from the DC-region to Virginia Beach and Norfolk.

While you’re driving, swing into Luray for some super safe spelunking-light experiences wandering through subterranean caves!

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Fort Campbell, Clarksville, TN

The Smokies are stunning in fall. The mountains start turning in late-September and continue through November or so.

Clarksville is smack in the middle of the state and along the northern border. Which means that you have access to tons of gorgeous leaves!

So go east, go west and go north to enjoy amazing colors no matter where the road takes you.

Iwakuni, Yakota & Fukuoka Japan

Military spouses living in the land of the rising sun can take in the glories of fall, too! Fall leaves start turning in northern Japan around mid-September, but peak season for the Tokyo and more southern main island locations lasting through December.

Hiroshima is a beautiful spot to check out fall foliage, plus access the floating torii on Miyajima with pretty reds and yellows starting in mid-November.

JR Rail, the national railroad system throughout the main island, has even prepared a helpful guide with anticipated fall color dates for travelers.

Camp Humphreys, South Korea

Starting around mid-September, South Korea will be awash in all the fall colors! From the southern islands to the DMZ, leaf peepers will be able to feast their eyes on incredible foliage all over the nation.

Be sure to check out the Seoul Tower for stunning views of the entire city. Another great option is to wander near the US Yongsan base through the Itaewon and Yongsan districts, full of eclectic eateries and quirky boutiques for shopping.

Ramstein Air Force Base, Germany

No matter where you’re located in Germany (we just picked this particular location out of the many US bases), fall is a great time to be bopping around here.

Enjoy Oktoberfest, which is already well underway, throughout the country with large steins, yummy sausage and pretty leaves. It’s practically a requirement.

Where do you go to peep fall leaves? We’d love to check out some of your secret foliage spots!

New Moms Face Snags with Tricare Breastfeeding Changes

10/03/2019 By Meg Flanagan

New parents connected to the military have relied on Tricare’s breastfeeding support programs for years. Moms have received breast pumps and supplies for free. Now, parents of some infants may also qualify for donor breast milk, too!

Expanding safe feeding options that allow parents a variety of solutions that fit the business of military life is always a good thing. But all this good also comes with a few hiccups.

New Moms Face Snags with Tricare Breastfeeding Changes

While donor milk coverage has been added, the notoriously generous breast pump program has been slapped with new restrictions.

$16 Million Breast Pump Overspend Leads to Major Changes

During a 2018 Inspector General audit, over $16 million in overspending on breast pumps and associated supplies was discovered. In one case, a breast pump that normally cost $200 at major retailers was billed at $1400 to Tricare.

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These inflated bills were caused by beneficiaries purchasing a pump directly from a medical supply company, which would then bill Tricare. Another option was to purchase a pump from other retailers on their own, submitting their receipt for reimbursement later.

Now, Tricare is instituting a reimbursement cap and streamlining the process for filing a claim.

Here’s what you need to know now:

  • Tricare will reimburse qualified beneficiaries up to $312.84 (CONUS) or $500.55 (OCONUS) during 2019
  • There are no restrictions on where beneficiaries may purchase their pump
  • Deluxe models are no longer allowed; contact your Tricare call center for specifics
  • To get reimbursed for a pump, you must have or obtain a prescription from your PCM or another in-network provider
  • Initiate your claim for DD-2642; attach your prescription and a copy of your receipt when submitting the claim
  • There are limits on milk collections containers, replacement parts and other associated supplies
  • You are limited to one pump per birth event

For questions regarding the specifics of your coverage, please contact your Tricare regional office. You can call Tricare East at 1-800-444-5445 or Tricare West at 1-844-866-9378. Members stationed OCONUS should also call their regional call center.

Canceled Orders, Big Debts

With the major changes to how Tricare handles breast pumps, many beneficiaries have been left up in the air.

As of July, over 5,000 claims were pending at Pumping Essentials. The CA-based company also canceled all current and future orders of pumps and supplies for Tricare beneficiaries.

Pumping Essentials has also officially cut ties, for the time being, with the Pentagon due to outstanding debts owed on already ordered pumps and supplies. In July, the DoD owed Pumping Essentials over $1 million for past orders and claims. Pumping Essentials, in a prepared statement, claims that contractors like Humana and HealthNet were negligent in paying bills on time.

“[The contractors] have drastically mismanaged the handling of these claims, resulting in significant amounts of unpaid claims to Pumping Essentials and many other providers. … At this time, the volume of unpaid claims has put our company in a position where we can no longer sustain the debt that is accruing,” wrote Pumping Essentials officials.

New Benefit, Zero Instructions

Parents of infants with certain medical concerns can now access milk banks with limited or zero cost. But the implementation of this new benefit has been anything but smooth.

Donated milk is used to help totally feed or provide a supplemental food source for infants who meet one or more medically complicating conditions:

  • very low birth weight, often due to extreme premature birth
  • disorder or surgery that impacts the GI tract
  • failure-to-thrive diagnosis
  • unable to drink formula, causing weight loss or failure to thrive
  • low blood sugar
  • heart disease
  • organ transplant
  • when maternal milk isn’t available and the infant has a serious health concern
  • other serious health conditions, at the discretion of the PCM or specialists

Milk banks are located around the country and world, but the extremely high cost has limited or prevented access for many. Donated milk can cost as much as $5 per ounce, with daily bills costing upwards of $150 during peak consumption periods.

Military families have gone deeply into debt trying to care for their new baby. With Tricare’s new policy, retroactive to January 2019, military families will bear less of a financial burden in an already stressful situation.

However, Tricare and the Defense Health Agency announced this new policy without creating or communicating a complete plan of action to providers and associated agencies.

There are questions about what is covered and who is responsible for different elements of using donor milk.

Lactation specialist Pauline Sakamoto said that Mothers’ Milk Bank in San Jose, CA was overwhelmed with calls after the new policy was introduced.

“There continue to be questions as to what the benefit is and what the families are responsible for paying,” Sakamoto said. “For example, shipping costs. Is that part of Tricare coverage or not? And to some extent, Tricare has a co-pay, but we aren’t seeing that families are getting requests. There are a lot of issues right now swarming around this coverage.”

Getting Your Baby Banked Milk

Right now, parents who are interested in exploring how donor milk may benefit their baby should speak to their PCM or medical care team. A prescription is required.

Your child’s doctor should be actively monitoring your baby’s case and writing a new prescription every 30 days. Babies may consume donated breast milk, covered with a prescription, until 12 months of age as long as it is deemed medically necessary.

Parents may need to pay for the donor milk upfront, submitting a claim to Tricare for reimbursement after the fact. With all claims, parents should submit an active prescription and their bill from the milk bank.

In case of confusion, call your Tricare regional call center stateside or overseas. Customer service representatives should be able to help you navigate the billing and reimbursement loopholes.

Have you used either the new breast pump or donor milk benefit? We’d love to hear about your experiences!

Digging into Real EFMP Stories from MilSpouses Who’ve Been There

09/26/2019 By Meg Flanagan

EFMP or the Exceptional Family Member Program. It’s supposed to be a program to help military dependents access care, find advocates and only PCS to locations that can really, truly serve their needs.

Except it doesn’t always work that way.

Military spouses hear from commands and MTFs that EFMP will totally help them! It’ll be so much easier to ensure access to the right health care providers, additional support services and education programs (for kids) at wherever they’re stationed.

They hear that it’s “mandatory” to be enrolled.

And then they hear the horror stories from other families, detailing all the things that have gone wrong, promises left unfulfilled and careers derailed.

So what’s the truth about military spouses and EFMP? We went straight to the source – military spouses with EFMP experience that run the gamut.

Digging into Real EFMP Stories from MilSpouses Who’ve Been There

Enrolling in EFMP is supposed to be simple, just some paperwork. Paperwork that you should be able to grab right at your on-base PCM. And your PCM should be helping to determine if you or your children are eligible to begin with.

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That’s not always the case, as some military spouses have discovered. Air Force Spouse, Susan R., was given some faulty information

“I should have been enrolled years before, but was told some inaccurate information about EFMP and the population the program serves,” she said. “I was informed by my PCM in 2008, that EFMP was a pediatric program and that adult specialty medical care could always be found. Sadly, that’s not entirely accurate.”

Adults are, in fact, eligible for enrollment in EFMP. But this might not always be clear to your PCM, military or civilian.

Other spouses, like USMC spouse Melissa, were surprised with their EFMP status.

“I had a temporary condition that I did not know qualified me for EFMP, and I was enrolled in EFMP without anyone contacting me or contacting my active-duty spouse,” she explained. “I believe I was enrolled for about two years. When it came time to PCS, we suddenly found out that I was in EFMP, since it came up on the checklists. That was a surprise!”

Unlike Melissa, Susan found enrollment challenging, contrary to the “easy process” touted by the military powers that be.

“Enrolling in EFMP seems to be an easy process, too,” Susan shared. “Fill out a form, get the PCM to fill it out, sign it and that’s it. Sadly, that’s not it. Depending on the diagnosis there could be many physicians and specialists involved needing to fill out and sign paperwork. That process can be long and drawn out.”

Once in “the system,” many military spouses felt let down by the support and services they experienced.

Melissa felt completely ignored by the whole process. Not only was she not informed of her enrollment, she was barely involved in the process to get out.

“I saw a distinct lack of communication from the EFMP service at the base where we were, Melissa said. “I could not believe I’d been signed up and no one from the office contacted me. (It) took him three tries to get to someone who knew what forms we needed to get me out of the program. Then, the final in-person interview we needed to attend was only scheduled through my spouse, not me. He called and asked if I could attend the meeting time. No one from EFMP reached out to me then, either.”

Even though getting into EFMP, and apparently getting out as well, might be a challenge, there are some positives to this program.

“The base we were at had good programs for EFMP members, in terms of regular gatherings and events for both kids and adults,” Melissa said. “I think it was a good program for those who knew they were in it.”

Susan, an Army kid turned Air Force spouse, remembers the days pre-EFMP. In her eyes, the positives come close to balancing out the negatives.

“The positives of EFMP means that families with medical needs are being considered when the service member is up for an assignment,” she said. “I was an Army kid and I remember life as EFMP was being rolled out by the Army. We had families getting stationed in places where their medical, educational and family support needs were never considered. The stress on families was overwhelming. In some cases, rare cases, family members would get very sick and not have the medical care they needed.”

Good & Bad of EFMP

USMC Spouse Jen C. has seen both sides of EFMP. Both Jen and her children are enrolled in EFMP.

“I have been enrolled as EFMP member since 2003. I also am a disabled vet and have physical limitations,” Jen explained. “I had my oldest May 2005. I was given respite. I used respite with the CDC on base. I was given I believe 16 or 20 hours of respite a month. It actually helped our family since my husband was an e-5 and I only had a 10% service connected disability rating at the time.”

Respite care, available to EFMP-enrolled adults to care for their children as well as for EFMP-enrolled children, provides a qualified sitter or care providers. Families then apply for reimbursement at a set rate and for a particular number of hours.

However, after 2009, Jen saw EFMP change – and not for the better in her estimation.

“After 2009 things changed drastically because of the sequestration,” she said. “EFMP respite was than non-existent for EFMP adults.”

Will It Impact the Military Career?

Career issues top the list of why military families try to stay off of EFMP rosters. But if you’re talking to military powers that be, negative career effects are basically non-existent. But what’s the truth?

Actually, it seems like it’s both.

EFMP basically ensures that military families are not moved to locations without the correct services and supports. At least, it’s supposed to prevent that.

In reality, EFMP status can limit duty station options and lead to unaccompanied tours.

Army spouse Megan H. has experienced two unaccompanied tours and denial of tours, all due to EFMP-enrolled dependents. There are multiple EFMP-qualifying individuals in her household.

“(W)e were not just denied accompanied overseas assignments, but CONUS assignments as well,” Megan shared in her personal story. “(The) doctors, without understanding the process, not only ended up putting a wish list of services on each of my daughters’ forms (for now my three oldest all qualified to be enrolled) but they also enrolled me for about six or seven different diagnoses, some of which I didn’t really have, as well as listing approximately seven or eight providers that I needed to see either weekly or monthly for those diagnoses.”

Susan also saw impacts to her spouse’s career. While the personal impact is negative, she can also see the rationale behind the policy.

“(W)e were unable to move to a location that would have helped his career progression. The lack of medical care meant that my family was denied travel to that location. We ended up staying at a location for close to 8 years,” she explained. “I also believe that EFMP is supposed to impact the service member’s career. I’m sure this seems strange, but this is what I believe. If DoD didn’t have EFMP, then families who have children with autism, are diagnosed with cancer, have illnesses that require specialty medical care would move to duty stations and never be able to access the care and services needed.”

A new USMC study appears to show that there is little to no longterm impact on Marine’s careers.

“Not only did we find that career advancement was not distinguishably impacted by EFMP enrollment, we also learned that, on average, EFMP enrollees serve slightly longer than their non-EFMP active duty counterparts, achieve a slightly higher grade, and the majority achieve that high grade in the same or shorter amount of time than the average of their non-enrolled peers,”  said Jennifer Stewart, the EFMP Section Head for Marine and Family Programs.

What Happens If I Don’t Enroll?

If your EFMP-qualifying issue is mild or well-controlled, then this should be listed on your medical paperwork. Opting to avoid enrolling is a 100% personal decision that needs to be based on multiple factors.

However, before choosing to skip EFMP, it’s important to understand the implications.

  • Moving to a duty station where limited or no services are provided via MTFs or in-network civilian medical providers
  • Being located in a place with limited or no support services, like ABA therapy
  • Moving to a location where routine, infrequent maintenance screenings or check-ups are unavailable

Basically, you could be in a place where the things you or your child needs to cope with your diagnosis are just not available. While some diagnoses or individuals might be able to manage, others may not. And you just won’t know what’s there until you get there.

Susan appreciates the fact that her family’s duty station options are more limited.

“My husband and I are good with not being able to move to a location that doesn’t have the medical care to support our family,” she shared. “Our family is the most important thing which means having access to medical care that we need.”

However, Jen found that the system failed her family,

“We had serious waitlist issues in FL,” she explained. “I even called USMC EFMP HQ in Quantico because I asked why they sent me somewhere where there are no services.”

What has been your experience with EFMP? Sound off in the comments!

News Headlines Confusing Regarding Citizenship for Children Born to U.S. Military Members Overseas

09/26/2019 By Military Life Administrator

Here is a recent CNN Headline: “Citizenship will no longer be automatic for children of some US military members living overseas”. Reading this headline; I immediately think, if I am stationed outside the U.S. and have a child are they a U.S. citizen?

All this confusion comes from a Policy Alert, dated August 28, 2019 from the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services. Basically it is policy guidance to clarify requirements for residence in statutory provisions related to citizenship regarding children of U.S. government employees and members of the U.S. Armed Forces employed or stationed outside the United States. In layman’s terms, it affects a small number of children who are born to naturalized U.S. citizens who have not lived in the United States for a required period of time.

After realizing this new policy doesn’t affect the majority of military service members and their families who are stationed overseas it did make me wonder how the process works if you have a child while stationed outside the county. There are three ways you can become a U.S. citizen: naturalization which is becoming a citizen after birth, born on U.S. soil or birth to parents who are U.S. citizens. A few things you need to know if having a child outside the country.

  • Contrary to popular belief, a U.S. military base outside the country is not considered U.S. soil for citizenship purposes.
  • The only way a child born outside of the U.S. can become a citizen is through their parents.
  • If your child is born in a military hospital overseas or in a foreign hospital, you will receive a birth certificate but these are not valid for obtaining a U.S. passport.
  • It is important that you register the birth with the U.S. embassy or consulate in the country you are stationed in. This requires an application and documents proving the parents’ citizenship as well as the paperwork from the military or foreign hospital recording the birth. You will receive a Consular Report of Birth Abroad which proves your child’s citizenship and is valid for obtaining a U.S. passport

You may wonder if there are any benefits to making your child a dual citizen of the foreign country you are stationed in. This is something that should be carefully considered. Many countries have mandatory military service or income tax that you would not want to inflict on your child. It may make sense if one of the parents were from a foreign country. In these circumstances it would be worth it to speak to an immigration attorney.

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/Adobe Stock

An an interesting note this topic came up during the last election regarding whether Sen. Ted Cruz, was eligible to become President because he was born in Canada to a U.S. citizen Mom and a Father who was born in Cuba. He gained citizenship through his Mother and is consider a “natural born” citizen meaning he held citizenship from birth which is the requirement to become President.

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com

10 Apps & Sites to Make Your Next PCS So Much Easier

09/26/2019 By Meg Flanagan

We just finished a monster of a PCS. And while everything went pretty well, I would have sure loved a little more support with organization and streamlining.

Perhaps something in the literal palm of my hand?

Luckily, there are tons of new apps out there designed for just this purpose. From service-specific apps to more general designs, there is sure to be an app (or two) out there to help your military family have an easier PCS!

10 Apps & Sites to Make Your Next PCS So Much Easier

When you’re on a tight timeline with about a million balls in the air, it helps to have everything in one place. These apps will set your military family on the path to make your next PCS easier!

My Ultimate PCS

Developed by military spouses, Moni Jefferson and Maria Reed, this simple, streamlined app keeps everything together! There are options to sync between the app and your calendar, making hitting deadlines so much easier! Plus, you can plan every stage of your trip, monitor checklists and take photos of all your high-value items before they get packed up.

My PCS Mobile

The Navy just launched a brand new way to track and monitor PCS moves – but it’s just for sailors. Best of all: no app needed! Launch this all-in-one app from any browser, anytime. Get started at the Navy App Locker!

MilitaryByOwner

House hunting is one of the most challenging aspects of any PCS. Trying to hit the sweet spot of BAH, ideal commute, great schools and good neighborhood is hard. MilitaryByOwner makes it easier with home for rent or sale by military families – just like you! You can search by base, BAH and commute distance. Plus, since everyone is military, your new landlords totally get the PCS process.

PCSMyPOV

You’ve got two cars and you’re moving cross-country. It can be a logistical nightmare for sure. Deciding who drives, what gets shipped and how much you’re willing to pay is stressful. Take some of the stress out of your PCS with this simple car shipping service – with an accompanying app, too! Search shippers, peek at rates and finalize your POV’s big move.

Google Maps

Know what worse than getting lost in your new hometown? Actually, no that is the worst. Stay in the know about where to go with Google Maps (or Apple Maps or Waze or your other favorite GPS app). With Google you can do a quick check of your surroundings for restaurants, parks and grocery stores. Bookmark important locations, like your child’s school or the best running trail.

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/Adobe Stock

Your Favorite Hotel App(s)

Whether you are road-tripping or flying, you’re going to need someplace to lay your head along the way. Download your favorite hotel app or apps to try to save a little green on great locations. Some great options:

  • Hotels.com
  • Booking.com
  • Marriot Bonvoy
  • Kayak

BringFido

Have dog, will travel! Feel better about taking your puppy pal along for the adventure with BringFido. This app helps pet owners find hotels that will also welcome their pup.

Playground Buddy

Long TLF stays get old quick. Even just a few days of travel can be wearing, especially with kids. Find places and spaces to stretch everyone’s legs with Playground Buddy! This app helps parents locate playgrounds nearby. Bonus: this app had listings for playgrounds all over the world!

USA Rest Stops

When you’ve gotta go, you’ve gotta go and USA Rest Stops can help you locate something close by ASAP. You’ll be able to see where rest stops are located before you leave or search along the way. Plus, if you’re trying to combine a bathroom break with a quick bite to eat, you can also check to see what each rest stop offers – including their hours!

Priority Pass

If you’re passing through airports, you need to check out Priority Pass. It’s basically your all-access pass to luxury airport lounges. Think: free food, faster(er) WiFi and maybe a hot shower. You can purchase an annual membership with Priority Pass, but many credit cards like Chase Saphire or AMEX Platinum include this deal for cardholders. And these two cards specifically do not charge active duty troops the annual card fee! Which makes getting free Priority Pass a no-brainer for less stressful PCS flights.

What are your top tips or apps to make PCSing even smoother for military families? Sound off in the comments!

Funds Siphoned from Military to Build Border Wall

09/19/2019 By Military Life Administrator

Are you outraged that $3.6 Billion from the Pentagon Budget is going to be diverted to pay for the border wall?

The news has been filled with headlines like this one from a CNN opinion piece “Trump is hurting the military for his own political benefit”. According to the September 3, 2019, DOD Briefing on Use of 2808 MILCON Funds for Construction of the Border Wall, $3.6 billion dollars from the military construction budget will be reallocated to help fund the border wall. I found myself pretty angry for a variety of reasons. One of the listed projects is near where I live affecting one of our military bases and the local economy. The second reason is that budgeting falls under Congress and I didn’t like the use of Executive Orders with President Obama and I don’t like this use with President Trump. It violates our constitution and the separation of powers between the Executive, Legislative and Judicial Branches of the government.

Background. (compiled from the Sept 3, DOD Briefing)

So how can this happen? The president declared a national emergency at the border between Mexico and the United States under the use of Title 10, U.S. Code, Section 2808. The Defense Department then evaluated whether military construction projects (the wall) on the border would support the use of Armed Forces deployed to the border. The chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, Gen. Joseph Dunford concurred that such projects support the use of armed forces. So after all the analysis, Secretary of Defense Esper determined these construction projects are necessary and that the DOD will take on 11 border barrier military construction projects on the border.

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Next the DOD identified which construction projects could be deferred with the goal of minimizing the impact within the United States and its territories. They also did not include housing for both troops and families or those that were awarded for 2019.  Approximately $1.8 billion will come from projects outside the U.S. and about $1.8 billion from with the U.S. and its territories.

According to a Military Times article, “Here’s everything the Pentagon is putting on hold to concentrate on building the border wall,” dated Sept. 4. It is quite a few. “In total, the list included 43 projects in 23 states ― two of which had been slated for cancellation ― along with 21 in three U.S. territories and another 63 in 20 partner nations abroad. Now, they are all delayed in favor of 11 new projects that will make up 175 miles of new or reinforced border barriers.”

Where the politics come in – now the DOD is going back to Congress to request these funds that were reallocated to the wall be returned to the Pentagon budget.  In regards to the 63 projects occurring in partner nations, it seems the goal is to ask them to pay for the projects as part of President Trump’s plan to make allies pay a fair share of defense expenses.

Current headlines about money being pulled from the Defense Department to pay for the wall made me very angry. Some even stated that the military would be less safe because of the reduced funding. I found that many of these headlines are very inflammatory and really designed to elicit the response I had. After reviewing all the information I could find and going to the source (Department of Defense briefing about this issue) I realized that the Pentagon has worked to choose construction projects which will have the least impact if they are delayed and I don’t believe any directly affect the safety of our military service members. So, I am still angry that Pentagon money is still going to pay for the wall but it is not a damaging as the headlines would have you believe.

What do you think about this issue? When you see inflammatory headlines do you take them at face value or do you delve into the story a little deeper to find the facts?

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com

Fall Into Fall at Your PX & Commissary

09/18/2019 By Meg Flanagan

Crisp leaves, fuzzy sweaters and cool weather! At least, that’s the plan for many military families. But even if you’re stationed somewhere subtropical or in the desert, you can still dive into fall!

Fall Into Fall at Your PX & Commissary

You can get set for autumn weather, no matter where you’re stationed, right at your base’s Commissary and PX!

Pretty Door Decor

Start strong, right at your front door!

Grab a gorgeous fall Welcome wreath, available online or in-store at select Exchanges. I love the colorful leaves, cheerful sunflowers and country-chic font. It almost looks homemade!

Or if you’re feeling a little less cute and a lot more spooky, add some Halloween decor to your door. There is a great eyeball wreath that will make you cackle in ghoulish delight. Or the ever classic bone-wreath. For something cuter and less scary, a neon-colored witch theme door wreath is perfect!

Get Cozy

The Exchange is a great place to shop for fuzzy, warm fall sweaters.

Since fall days can start and end cooler, but get warm in the middle, a wrap sweater is a great option. You’ll be able to stay warm when there’s a chill in the air, but get comfier if the day heats up.

For the gentlemen, pick up a half-zip sweater. It’s perfect for apple picking and fall festivities, too.

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Soothing Sippers

Your Commissary is the best place to grab all the best hot fall drinks.

Pick up hot cocoa mix and some whipped cream. Pout yourself a nice hot mug of cocoa, topped with a little cream and maybe some sprinkles.

Or get your morning started with pumpkin spice flavored coffee. This fall favorite is available in bags or as Keurig-compatible pods.

A good book seems to call for a cup of tea. You can get all the best brands at the Commissary! From Tazo to Celestial Seasonings.

Get Slow Cooking

Nothing says fall quite like a hot, homestyle meal. You can make your own yummy dinner with almost zero effort!

Stop at the Exchange to grab a slow cooker. I like the set it and forget it ease of programmable options. Set the time to cook at a particular setting, then it will automatically switch to “warm” until you manually shut it off.

Next, swing into the Commissary for some essentials. Grab your favorite broth – beef, veggie or chicken – plus onions, carrots, herbs and other hardy veggies. Chop and combine everything into your slow cooker for a hearty fall veggie soup!

Or brown some ground meat and add some beans for a creative take on chili.

The sky is the limit when it comes to slow-cooked meals: whole chickens, soups, stews, chili and even breads or desserts!

Go Apple Picking & Bake a Pie

You’ve gone to the orchard, but now you have a ton of apples. There’s only so many a person can eat. But apples are also great for cooking!

Pick up a new pie plate at the Exchange (or some single-use tins at the Commissary) and get baking! Slice and dice those apples, add in some sugar and spice – it’s everything nice – before you slide it into a buttery crust.

No apples? No problem! Pick up some fresh apples at the Commissary. Or grab a can of pre-mixed apple pie filling.

Whatever kind of pie you’re baking, top it with ice cream for a classic fall treat.

Scent-sational Fall

I love when I come home and my house smells like fall. All cinnamon-y and warm.

Grab wax melts and candles at the Exchange.

Candles are great for setting the mood over a warm, cozy dinner or for a night in. Pick tall white unscented candles for a date night at your house. You don’t want anything competing with your yummy food smells!

For your fall night in, grab candles in your favorite fall scents. Yankee Candle makes super amazing, long-lasting candles in a ton of fall fragrances.

For all-day scent, try plug-ins and wax warmers. These no-flame options deliver tons of incredible fragrance 24/7. All you need is an outlet!

Just Add Pumpkins!

Just starting to get in a fall frame of mind? Get yourself some pumpkins!

The Exchange has a ton of pumpkin decor, ready for you to showcase in your fall-theme home. I love the white pumpkins – they’re perfect for using a paint pen and channeling all my Pinterest ideas.

Ready for the next level? Head to the Commissary for the real thing! Pick up a carving kit, too. Settle in for a day of pumpkin carving with your family! Nothing says fall like jack-o-lanterns.

How do you decorate and celebrate fall? We’d love to try your best ideas!

Do’s and Don’ts of Social Drinking at Military Functions

09/12/2019 By Military Life Administrator

By Marguerite Cleveland

Alcoholic Beverages are a big part of military culture. From Right Arm nights, grog bowls, military balls to wine clubs there are plenty of opportunities to imbibe. Here are a few tips to keep you on the straight and narrow.

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I’ll never forget one event when I was still in the Army and my boss was sent to the grog bowl way too many times and got totally trashed. It was so embarrassing as his behavior was atrocious and I remember feeling so bad for his wife.  So don’t be that guy.

1. The Grog Bowl – Know your limits. This foul concoction is super potent, think zombie shots on steroids. Most units now offer a non-alcoholic version and that may be your best option. Typically it is only the service member that is sent to the bowl. If you are a spouse plan to be the designated driver that night, Uber or stay a hotel near the venue.

2. Military Balls and other events. Although these events can be fun remember they are not prom. These are more like the office Christmas Party where people tend to let their hair down a bit. Just be aware that people will note your behavior and talk the next day. For a service member boorish behavior could have repercussions I your professional life.

3. Uber and designated drivers are your friends. Never drink and drive. Unlike the civilian world, your off duty activities can affect a service member’s career in a negative way. Getting a DUI can result in a letter of reprimand or an Article 15 which will follow you throughout your time in the military. Don’t let a beer ruin your career.

4. Coffees, Wine Club and other Spouse Drinking. Wine at a coffee, yes it is a thing. There are many opportunities for military spouses to get together and socialize. The key thing is to recognize whether an event is semi-official. Usually a coffee is a get together of military spouses whose service member is in the same unit. These can be fun but when it comes to imbibing adult beverages less is more. This is not the time to let your hair down. Wine Club is a more relaxed environment. These are everything from casual neighborhood/friends get togethers to more structured clubs.  This is a more fun acceptable time to let your hair down a bit.

5. How much to drink? Know your limits. My suggestion would be one or two drinks, beer or glasses of wine in an evening. For some one drink is enough while some people can handle two drinks. The key is not to get trashed, wasted, tanked or plastered at an event.

     How much do you think is appropriate to drink at a military social event? Have you ever seen someone cross the line by imbibing too much alcohol?

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com

What’s the Deal with Tricare? Common Issues that Every Military Family Might See

09/11/2019 By Meg Flanagan

In every single military spouse group, members are constantly discussing Tricare. The ups, the downs and the best tips to make it work for you.

What’s the Deal with Tricare? Common Issues that Every Military Family Might See

Almost every family will run into the same common issues if you spend any time at all dealing with Tricare, MTFs and even civilian in-network providers.

Which Plan Do I Pick?

The first question every military spouse and family encounters is about which plan is best for them.

  • Prime: the entirely free (yes, free) plan requires families to default to on-base military treatment facilities (MTFs) and pharmacies, with off-base providers being used when on-base clinics are full. Off-base pharmacies can be used at your discretion, but with a co-pay for medications.
  • Select: this works more like a traditional civilian insurance plan, with deductibles and co-pays. But you can see any in-network provider, usually without a referral! However, you may need to pay for services up-front and file a claim for reimbursement later.
  • US Family Health Plan: only available in certain areas of the US. Operates like Prime, but with civilian providers. You are not able to access care or the pharmacy on-base, except in the case of an emergency. Referrals for specialty care is provided and there are co-pays for prescriptions and some specialty care.
  • Prime Remote: the same exact plan as Prime, but offered to families who live 50 or more miles from an MTF. You’ll see civilian doctors at little to no cost to you.
  • Prime Overseas: it’s Prime, but overseas! Get your care on your local military base and grab prescriptions from the military pharmacy. You won’t notice any changes in care, other than your physical location!
  • Select Overseas: it’s Select, just overseas! You’ll be able to see providers of your choice, with co-pays and without referrals. Be prepared to pay for services up-front and file claims later. These will be local providers, so there may be a language barrier.
  • Prime Remote Overseas: for families located OCONUS but far from an MTF, Prime Remote Overseas is for you! Your care will be managed and coordinated via the contractor’s regional call center.

All plans require enrollment. You can compare the plans before you make your selection.

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How Do I Find a Doctor on Prime or USFHP?

Before you enroll, you can check to see where the in-network providers are located. You can read reviews and compare practice specialties.

Pick your PCM (primary care manager) based on your own criteria!

Once you’re enrolled, start seeing the doctor of your choice by coordinating with the Tricare representative and the office.

Where Do I Go In an Emergency?

For something that simply cannot wait, go to the closest ER. Even if it’s not an MTF or in-network provider, just go. Call Tricare or your plan provider network to notify them of your location. This will help them to process any resulting claims.

For anything that is not emergent, you can visit an urgent care clinic. Check the “find a doctor” options available specific to your plan.

Ugh, My Doctor Spends Zero Time with Me

Got a doc who’s in and out ASAP? Make the most of your time and come prepared to get to the heart of the matter.

Bring a list of your top questions and concerns with you. Then go down the list. Having your stuff prioritized means that you can make every second count.

If the limited time is impacting your care or you feel like you’re not being listened to, send a complaint. This helps the powers that be track and address issues within their system. Another option is to ICE the actual facility or doctor you’re working with. This is usually available on your MTFs website.

I Don’t Love My Care Provider

Good news, you can switch providers at any time. Send the request through the Tricare system or call to speak to an operator. You don’t need to give an explanation either.

What If I Want to Switch Plans?

You can change your plan once a year, during the enrollment period in the fall. All other times are off-limits, unless you experience a qualifying life event.

Waiting for Meds Takes Forever

If you’re using the military’s pharmacy, the wait for medication can be long. That’s because active duty troops in uniform get first priority. And because the meds are free, many pharmacies get swamped with prescriptions.

If you’d like to keep using the free pharmacy, go early. There is typically a shorter wait time first thing in the morning. Or scope out your location by visiting and doing recon at different times of the day.

Another choice is to take your prescriptions to an off-base, in-network pharmacy. You’ll be paying a co-pay, but also not waiting.

Finally, you can go mail order. For a co-pay, your routine medication will arrive at your door on a regular schedule.

I’m Not Getting the Care I Need

First, request that second opinion. Then file all the grievances and ICE complaints possible. Let them know you’re upset and detail the reasons why.

Follow up your complaints with in-person visits to the hospital/MTF administrator or care manager. Be ready to explain your concerns calmly and detail the optimal resolution(s).

Remember, you can always switch your PCM at any time. Try that and see if your level of care changes.

Keep requesting to see any specialists you think you need to get a handle on your issue.

And when the next enrollment period swings around, don’t be afraid to change plans entirely.

Mostly, just keep sharing your concerns and be ready to take action in order to get the care you deserve.

How Do I Make Sure My Doctors Follow My Wishes?

Good news, you’re not supposed to get care or treatments without your consent. If you have concerns or questions about a medication, vaccine or procedure, call a halt and start asking your questions!

Ask about alternatives to the initial proposal and why these may or may not be recommended.

While the doctors and nurses are the professionals, you’re the expert in yourself and your kids. Don’t be afraid to take a stand when it matters!

What Are My Recourse Options If Things Go Really Wrong?

First, there is the complaint and grievance procedure. Start there and see where you get.

If they’re not budging, push harder. While the Feres Doctrine bars active duty troops from suing the federal government over medical malpractice, it doesn’t appear to extend to military dependents. Bringing a lawsuit is always a possibility, albeit a very expensive option.

What are your thoughts about Tricare or other military healthcare plans? Sound off in the comments!

MilFams Save More Cash When You Buy Commissary Store Brands

09/10/2019 By Meg Flanagan

Pssst, you guys. Yeah, you! I need to share a sneaky secret that you’re probably, maybe, missing at your local Commissary.

Two words: store brands.

Over the last year or so, DeCA has rolled out store and partner brands. These are high quality, lower-cost pantry staples that every family buys often.

Let me tell you: I’m hooked! I know the Commissary is often known for carrying brand names at slightly less than stores out in town. But I’ve almost totally switched from those big names to the Commissary brands!

MilFams Save More Cash When You Buy Commissary Store Brands

Since I switched over to store brands, I’ve seen my savings increase! And I’m not buying anything unusual or that we don’t need. Instead, I’m making smart swaps to save some cash.

Even though the per item difference might just be a few cents, maybe a dollar, those small amounts definitely add up over time. Just one shopping trip can save me over $5, even when compared to using coupons.

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What Brands Are Store Brand?

It’s pretty easy to spot store brands in other places. Target has UpandUp. Giant and Stop & Shop have Nature’s Promise.

But spotting the Commissary’s store brands might be a smidge harder.

When you’re shopping look for:

  • Freedom’s Choice: food items, like canned goods and baking products
  • Homebase: paper products and non-food household goods

These are the private label brands, directly owned and produced by DeCA. You can find these labels on all sort of great products. Seriously: so many staples!

There are also partner brands. These are brands that you might see at other stores, but are priced like store brands. You can find:

  • Full Circle Market: organic, non-GMO and USDA organic items across the spectrum
  • TopCare: health and medical items, like bandaids and floss
  • Tippy Toes: baby care, like diapers and wipes

There are also pet food and birdseed brands available to shoppers at some locations.

What Store Brands Does a Real MilFam Buy

Some of my favorites are toilet paper and canned products, like beans and tomatoes. See? Pantry staples!

I’m constantly adding canned diced tomatoes to my everyday recipes. They’re a great addition to soups, pasta sauce and baked chicken. Yum!

My family has also been on a major healthy, organic food kick. So we’re cutting back on meat-eating and switching to mostly fruits and veggies. Lately, I’ve been absolutely loving the Full Circle Market organic canned beans.

They’re so much cheaper than comparable brand name organic beans! The quality is really great, too.

My kids are obsessed with eating the organic chickpeas, straight up with no seasoning. Plus, beans of all sorts are yummy additions to chili or to a vegetarian rice bowl.

As a baker, I’ve switched completely over to Freedom’s Choice flour and sugar. There’s no real difference between these pantry staples and the name brand products! Plus, that extra money allows me to buy more baking goods and make bigger batches of cookies. My kids appreciate that.

We switched over to the Homebase toilet paper when it first rolled out. It’s a good bit cheaper than the name brands the Commissary carries. There’s enough of a difference that I’ll gladly swap my triple thick, but pricey, TP for the two-ply Homebase rolls. No questions asked!

Shop & Save with Store Brands

Yes, I do still add non-store and partner brands to my cart. There aren’t equivalent products for everything I need available. At least, they’re not available right now, at my location.

There might be slightly different products available at your duty station!

But when I have the choice, I’m going with store brands. Hands down, every time.

It’s just smart, financially, to pick something just as good but with a lower price. All that money I’m saving goes straight into our vacation fund account! We’re planning a great trip, partially financed with savings because we’re shopping the Commissary’s store brands regularly.

What’s Stopping You From Switching to Store Brands

My family isn’t particularly choosy about brands, which is lucky. But I know that some families might be.

You might have grown up always buying the name brand or a particular brand. But here’s the thing: do canned diced tomatoes really taste that much different? What about flour?

Personally, I can’t tell the difference between Progresso and Freedom’s Choice once they’re out of the can. And I actually did a taste comparison before fully making the switch over.

Before you rule out store brands just because you’ve “always” bought the brand names, do a taste test. I bet you’ll be pleasantly surprised! I know I was.

When you’ve switched over on those pantry staples, you might even be able to splurge on some special, more pricey grocery items. I know that I love having a little more flexibility to grab gourmet olives and fancy bread.

Have you made the switch to the Commissary’s store brands? Sound off in the comments!

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