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No Photos for Promotion Boards

07/23/2020 By Military Life Administrator

Secretary of Defense issues guidance for diversity, inclusion and equal opportunity in the military

In a dramatic change to the promotion board process, Secretary of Defense Mark T. Esper directed the removal of photographs from consideration on promotion boards and selection processes effective September 1, 2020.  In the Memorandum dated July 14, 2020, he asked for a review of policies and processes to ensure diverse selection panels as well as the removal of all references to race, ethnicity, and gender in the packets reviewed by promotion boards. The goal is to ensure that these processes are free from bias based on race, ethnicity, gender, or national origin.

This follows the Army’s initiative, Project Inclusion announced on June 25, 2020 which also call for the removal of photos from officer promotion boards beginning August 2020. “The Army is taking substantive actions to ensure that promotion and selection boards are as fair and impartial as possible,” said Secretary of the Army Ryan D. McCarthy. “We’ll be initiating listening sessions to encourage the open dialogue that is critical to helping understand and support each other.”

“The Army must continue to put People First by fostering a culture of trust that accepts the experiences and backgrounds of every Soldier and civilian,” said Gen. James C. McConville, Army Chief of Staff. “Our diverse workforce is a competitive advantage and the Army must continue to offer fair treatment, access and opportunity across the force. The Project Inclusion reforms will complement ongoing efforts to modernize our talent-management processes and ensure equitable treatment for every member of our formation.”

Esper has addressed some additional actions which will take place to improve equal opportunity and diversity policies within the military:

  • Update DoD’s military harassment policy to increase protections for Service Members facing harassing behaviors especially racial bias and prejudice
  • Update the military equal opportunity policy to prohibit discrimination based on pregnancy.
  • Roles and responsibilities of leaders regarding equal opportunity will be defined and updated
  • Prejudice and Bias that exist in the force is not always transparent so DoD will collect and analyze data to identify patterns and trends. The data will be used to improve DoD policies and programs.
  • Increase the frequency of Equal Opportunity surveys in the workplace to determine what areas need improvement.
  • Conduct a study to identify factors affecting the racial and ethnic minority officer retention and promotion.
  • Develop a training program to educate the force on unconscious bias and how that can impact their decisions.
  • Additional training for commanders on how have effective discussions on discrimination, bias, and prejudice with their units
  • Update hairstyle and grooming policies to remove racial bias
  • Determine how effective Military Service equal opportunity offices are and make recommendations for changes.

Esper wrote in the memorandum, the success of our military mission depends on a disciplined and lethal force prepared to defend our country and our Constitution. There is no greater mission and no greater calling. When our Nation’s young men and women volunteer to join the U.S. Armed Forces, they do so to be a part of this critical mission, but also to be a part of a military “family” that spans over 10 generations. It is a bond that is revered. enduring, and essential to our integrity and all we do. As a military, we succeed by working together, hand in hand, side by side. Diversity and inclusivity in the ranks are not merely aspirations. they are fundamental necessities to our readiness and our mission success. The actions I am directing are a necessary first step, but hard work remains, and we will continue to learn as we move forward. Shifting culture requires steadfast attention; these actions will maximize our efforts to ensure a diverse workforce at all levels, an inclusive environment. and equal opportunity for all who serve.

These are big changes which will hopefully lead to a fairer unbiased promotion process for all service members as well as improvements to current equal opportunity programs across the military branches.

“The appearance of U.S. Department of Defense (DoD) visual information does not imply or constitute DoD endorsement.”

Photo from: https://www.defense.gov/

Photo By: Navy Petty Officer 2nd Class Michael Lopez

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com

DOD Drafts New Confederate Flag Policy

07/23/2020 By Meg Flanagan

Secretary of Defense Mark Esper announced on July 17 that all DOD installations would effectively ban divisive symbols, including the Confederate battle flag.

This news follows changes already made in the Marine Corps, Navy and on all installations in Japan and Korea.

DOD Drafts New Confederate Flag Policy

The new policy specifies which flags may be flown on DOD properties worldwide. The Confederate battle flag is not listed.

Flags displays are regulated on all military installations for both military and civilian personnel. They include workplaces and offices, public spaces and common access areas.

As of Friday, flags allowed to be flown on US military installations include: the US flag; POW/MIA flag; state flags; and flags of our allies. While the new policy does not specifically ban Confederate flags or other divisive flags, it does not include them on the list of approved symbols.

“I am committed to fielding the most powerful military force the world has known by strengthening the bonds of our most valuable resource — our people. That is why we honor the American flag, which is the principal flag we are authorized and encouraged to display,” Esper wrote in the memo, according to reporting by CNN and Politico.

In certain circumstances displays of non-authorized flags will still be allowed under several exemptions, including “museum exhibits, state-issued license plates, grave sites, memorial markers, monuments, educational displays, historical displays, or works of art, where the nature of the display or depiction cannot reasonably be viewed as endorsement of the flag by the Department of Defense.”

“The flags we fly must accord with the military imperatives of good order and discipline, treating all our people with dignity and respect, and rejecting divisive symbols,” wrote Esper.

According to Politico, Esper had also recently come under pressure from top defense leadership to enact this ban. Each branch of service remains free to enact their own ban on additional flags and symbols.

USMC Leads Charge for Change in DOD

Marines have proven to be the tip of the spear when it comes to banning displays of the Confederate battle flag.

In early June, USMC Commandant General David Berger issued a memo that required all Confederate flag images and items from all installation throughout the Corps.

The US Navy has also enacted a similar ban, with the Army and Air Force keeping such actions under consideration. US forces in Japan and Korea have also enacted similar bans on all installations within their sphere of influence.

New Policy Skirts Trump’s Opposition

Esper’s new policy is a revision from an earlier policy that named the Confederate flag outright as banned from all bases. Some see the changes as creating language that is more palatable to President Donald Trump.

Trump, as of July 1, promised to veto any defense spending bill should it include language banning Confederate symbols. He issued his opinion via Twitter.

The release of the DOD’s policy effectively circumvents Trump’s ability to veto the Defense Spending Authorization Bill. The president has vowed to veto any proposal that included renaming of Army bases to remove Confederate leaders.

Bases which had been considered for renaming include Fort Bragg and Fort Benning, among others.

Trump has also previously stated that flying the Confederate flag is a freedom of speech issue.

House Armed Services Committee Adds Language to NDAA Removing Confederate Symbols

In early July, the House Armed Services Committee agreed to include language removing such displays from all DOD properties as part of the defense spending authorization.

Iraq War veteran Representative Anthony Brown (D-MD) introduced the amendment to the bill which would “prohibit the public display of the Confederate battle flag at all Department of Defense property.”

The proposed language, according to NPR, has bipartisan support in both the House and the Senate. Due to Trump’s public opposition to the renaming of military bases, the $704.6 billion defense spending authorization hangs in the balance. The bill includes funds for a 3% pay raise for troops.

Senator Chuck Shumer (D-NY) expects the bill to pass in Congress even with a Trump veto.

“Let me make a prediction: First, that provision will not change in this bill as it moves through the House and Senate. Second, let me predict, President Trump will not veto a bill that contains pay raises for our troops and crucial support for our military,” Schumer said on July 1.

With the recent news about the DOD’s effective Confederate flag ban, there has not been word about possible changes to the House Armed Services Committee’s proposals.

How will this new policy impact installations and troops? Sound off in the comments.

Virtual Camps Offer Families New Options During Pandemic Summer

07/22/2020 By Meg Flanagan

Every Thursday, my daughter goes to ballet. Except she doesn’t actually leave the house and has never met her teacher in person. Everything is 100% online, which is actually perfect for this summer.

Virtual Camps Offer Families New Option During Pandemic Summer

Virtual or online camps and lessons are one new option available to families in the US this summer. Across the country, sports and summer camps are largely cancelled for in-person. If “live” camps are happening, it is very likely that they are going forward under much different circumstances than last year.

The YMCA is one of the few major, nationwide- camp and child care providers that remained open this summer. While they have not seen a large spike in cases, all Y camps have been following strict social distancing and cleaning procedures.

In addition, the CDC released guidelines to help camps and summer child care centers limit the risk of exposure.

Despite the guidelines, many parents have opted to keep their children home from in-person camps or child care entirely. To help fill the void, families are turning to online classes, camps and even summer school.

Camps Pivot to Online Options Early

As quickly as mid- to late-May, many summer camps were shifting from in-person to online options.

In the DC area, major summer camp provider Baroody Camps shifted from their traditional model to a hybrid. They opted to offer limited, small group camps in person alongside online only options. The in-person camps are limited to less than 10 children from the same neighborhood.

Camps across the nation also made these adjustments in response to the pandemic. All camps are offered with streaming video along with other ways to engage.

Parade Magazine shared more than 45 options for virtual summer camps to keep kids busy this summer. Their list included online camps from the San Diego Zoo and SeriousFun Children’s Network as well as classes offered by individual makers or themed courses.

Virtual Camps Offer Exciting, Cheaper Opportunities for Kids

The influx online camping experiences has broadened horizons for children who are not co-located to the camp of their choice. For example, children can now “go” to camp in SoCal while living in Northern Virginia!

In addition, many of these online camps are free or very low cost when compared to the expense of in-person camping. According to data analyzed by Care.com, camps can be very pricey for families.

In summer 2018, families could expect to pay, on average:

  • Day Camp: $314/week
  • Sleep Away Camp: $768/week
  • Specialty Camps: $500-$1,000/week

For families that needed multiple weeks or months of camp-based child care in the summer, costs can rapidly soar into the thousands of dollars quickly. Virtual camps, in many cases, are significantly cheaper or even free this summer. Some online experiences, like private music lessons or tutoring, cost about the same as pre-pandemic.

Some Districts Offer Free, Inclusive Summer School

In May, many districts in Northern Virginia and across the country announced that they were offering free summer school for 100% of their students. Alexandria City Schools, for example, released a plan that automatically opted all students into the summer school program. Parents could choose to remove their child from the online-only experience, but everyone was included with no academic benchmarks to be met.

This Northern Virginia school district used the same platforms that students were familiar with from distance learning in the spring. Students may return to those online learning platforms should distance learning return in the fall.

Many districts around the country, including New York City, followed suit.

Parents Still Juggling Child Care & Work

While online camps offer some options to keep children entertained while parents work from home, many families are still juggling all the things.

Some online summer camps require heavy parent involvement or prep work. Many, like PBS Kids, provide tips and activity ideas alongside streaming videos and games.

Not all children are able to be occupied or remain attentive during online camp or classes. Younger children in particular have shorter attention spans, not always conducive to all-day, every day virtual engagement.

While online learning and camping experiences do provide some measure of relief for busy families, it’s not the same as in-person versions.

The key seems to be to find an online course or camp that aligns with your child’s age level and interests. Which is why every Thursday afternoon my basement turns into a ballet studio and my daughter shows her plies to Madame via Zoom.

Has your family tried virtual summer camps? Sound off about your experiences in the comments!

Save Time and Money By Using the Commissary Website to Help Plan Your Meals

07/22/2020 By Military Life Administrator

If it  has been a while since you visited the Defense Commissary Agencie’s (DeCA) Website make the time to check it out. There is a wealth of information that can save you time and money during your next shopping visit to your local commissary. Having a game plan on your next visit and understanding how to maneuver through the aisles will make your visit run smoothly.

“Often taking some time to explore your commissary can be beneficial – to see what new products are on the shelves or taking time to talk to department managers,” said Army Command Sgt. Maj. Tomeka N. O’Neal, DeCA’s senior enlisted advisor to the agency director. “But other times you really need to get in and get out quickly. Using these tips will help you efficiently whiz around the store and get all your weekly shopping done in no time at all.”

Here are some tips from DeCA on utilizing the commissary website that will help you plan and shop for a week’s worth of meals:

  • See What is On Sale – Before planning your meals for the week visit the Rewards and Savings tab on the website and look up the Sales Flyer (temporarily suspended due to COVID-19), coupons and promotions to see what are good deals. Under current promotions on that tab, the meat department offers Meat Power Boxes. There are four types and save an additional 25-30%. They can also help you plan your meal around this key ingredient.
  • Find the Perfect Recipe – Visit the Recipe Tab on the commissary website for some great ideas. There are healthy recipes, kid-friendly and even a few chef’s recipes. You can also search by ingredient which is great if you plan to purchase a Meat Power Box. Just select beef and there are 22 recipes available. Choose the ones you like and write on your plan in the next step.
  • Create a Written Plan – The DeCA website offers a two page Weekly Meal Plan Worksheet that offers a master plan for a weeks’ worth of meals. I find this worksheet extremely helpful planning meals by following the steps. First the worksheet offers a place to write down three meals per day for a whole week and the necessary ingredients. Next check what ingredients you have already and cross off from the ingredient list. Then review ingredients and write the brand name down for what is on sale or you have a coupon for. On page two of the worksheet you can write down your ingredients based on what aisle they are located at in the commissary.
  • Coupons – Coupons offer additional savings but can be time consuming to cut out and organize. The Commissary Reward Card can be picked up on a visit to your local commissary. Register it online and then you can download coupons right to your rewards card. When you check out the clerk will scan your card and it will subtract all the coupons from your card decreasing your costs. You can find more coupons at in your local paper, online and in the commissary at the front entrance and hanging by items throughout the store. Tip: You can only use one coupon per item whether on your card or a paper coupon. Review your coupons on your card because sometimes the paper ones have a higher value. Give your paper coupons to the clerk first so the higher value coupons will ring up. Remove any paper coupons from your stack that have a lower value than on your card.

You can also save money by not shopping when you are hungry as one can purchase items not on your list due to being hungry. You can save time by not shopping during peak hours especially not on pay day or the day before which tends to be super busy. Plan to visit on a day you aren’t in a hurry and get to know the department managers. You can find out which day your favorite items are delivered to the store. They can also give you heads up on upcoming sales.

DeCA is currently testing a new program called CLICK2GO. It is similar as to the curb side pickup that  is offered at civilian grocery and retail stores. Order online and the commissary staff will prepare your order and load it up when you arrive for pick up. You can use coupons and your rewards card and pay when you arrive. Currently CLICK2GO is available at Fort Belvoir, Fort Eustis, Naval Air Station Oceana and Marine Corps Base Quantico in Virginia, and McGuire Air Force Base at Joint Base McGuire-Dix-Lakehurst, New Jersey. More locations are coming. Keep checking back online for new locations.

So next time you are heading to the commissary take a little extra time to plan. It will save you time and money.

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com

COVID-19’s Impact on US Troops

07/20/2020 By Meg Flanagan

As summer has progressed, coronavirus case have spiked across the US. Hot spots in July included several states with a heavy military presence.

While cases are on the rise in the US, coronavirus is also on the rise in the ranks.

COVID-19’s Impact on US Troops

As of July 15, there are 18,968 cumulative cases among active duty personnel. This data reflects an increase of 952 cases from numbers reported on July 13.

When you include all DOD employees, there are 27,088 cumulative cases, an increase of 1,266 from data reported on July 13.

According to data analysis by Military Times, more than 4,100 active duty troops have tested positive for COVID since between July 1 and July 10. This reflects a rate of growth that is more than twice the national rate during the same period. COVID-19 cases in the ranks increased by approximately 33% while total cases in the US rose by 16%.

When each service is considered separately, the cumulative cases reported, as of July 15, are:

  • Air Force: 2,805
  • Navy: 5,084
  • Marines: 2,124
  • Army: 6,104
  • National Guard: 2,614

According to Air Force Magazine, the DOD switched to cumulative reporting of cases instead of current active cases in April to “more accurately reflects the effects of COVID-19 to our force.”

DOD COVID-19 Numbers Compared to Total US Cases

As of July 10, approximately 0.8% of the total US active duty force has, or had, tested positive for COVID-19. The US generally has an infection rate of 0.9%. Similar to the general US population, some cases may not have been accounted for due to asymptomatic carriers or those who did not seek treatment and testing.

Military Response to COVID-19

In March, the DOD implemented travel restrictions and emergency policies in efforts to control the spread of COVID-19.

Many troops were switched to telework as their roles allowed. Currently, many military personnel are still working from home or are on adjusted schedules to allow for social distancing.

During the spring and early summer, many troops were in limbo as PCS moves were paused indefinitely. However, those moves are back on and being scheduled, albeit on a sometimes adjusted schedule.

Beyond PCSing, troops general movements were restricted for both leisure and official purposes.

Many deployed personnel were held in place for extended periods of time prior to returning to their home bases. Upon returning, troops were quarantined away from their families for an additional two weeks.

All military personnel had travel restrictions imposed for personal leave and travel. Many were restricted to their immediate vicinity or had a tight radius in which they must remain. This radius remains determined by by individual base leadership and is in part based on local coronavirus data. As a result, some troops have experienced greater travel liberties than others based upon location and the decisions of their base leadership.

Boot Camp & COVID-19

In early July, USMC boot camps reported hundreds of cases in new recruits, based on reporting by Military.com.

Maj. Gen. Bill Mullen reported that less than 2% of total Marine recruits have tested positive during the pandemic. Of those who did have COVID-19, Mullen said that many were either asymptomatic or experienced mild cases that did not disrupt training.

According to the DOD, the Army and the Air Force are reporting similar rates of coronavirus cases in their initial training facilities, with about 2% of recruits testing positive. Approximately 60% of those cases displayed no symptoms.

In response to COVID-19, the military services are testing all new recruits. Army and Air Force recruits who test positive are quarantined fo 14 days or until healthy. In addition, recruiting target numbers have been adjusted for 2020 to reflect the pandemic.

The Navy and Marines are quarantining all incoming recruits for 14 days. The sea services report that they are requiring personnel to wear face masks during all training. Each training cycle is also reduced in number and capacity to better ensure health and safety.

Cautious Reopening Driven by Local Data

Each military base has been authorized, per information released by the DOD.

As of July 15, 32% of all military installations have removed travel restrictions. However, 158 bases remain under some form of movement restriction. In part, some bases could have limits on personal travel due to restrictions imposed at the state level.

What do you think about the DOD’s response to the pandemic? Sound off in the comments.

Face Mask Etiquette You Might Not Think About

07/20/2020 By Meg Flanagan

Face masks are with us almost everywhere right now. We’re all covering up our faces in stores, restaurants and whenever we’re in crowded spaces. With lots of grey areas in our new face mask reality, there’s a few points of etiquette you might not think about.

Face Mask Etiquette You Might Not Think About

Based on current guidelines from the CDC and other medical experts, wearing a face mask is one of the best options to prevent the spread of germs right now. Yes, this is a change from the initial stages of the COVID-19 pandemic, but it is based on new information gained from our ongoing exposure to this virus.

However, the when and where to wear a mask is something that not everyone can agree on 100% of the time. To be fair, there are a lot of situations where the etiquette is not quite clear.

Is There a Need to Wear a Mask Whenever I’m Outside?

According to CDC guidelines, face masks should be worn outside if you cannot maintain at least six feet distance between yourself and others.

Basically, if you’re able to be far apart from others, you’ve got the green light to remove your mask. However, there are some situations where you should mask-up.

Photo Credit: ©Svitlana /Adobe Stock

A prime example is passing others in close quarters, like on the sidewalk or other path. If you can move out of the way onto the grass or step onto the street, it might be wise to pull your mask on.

This was a prime concern, according to those interviewed by WBUR in Boston. Several parents were taken back by runners or other walkers who “zipped by” without wearing a mask.

Do I Need a Mask While Exercising?

Exercising while masked, or not, is a point of contention. If you’re running, you are likely passing walkers at a faster rate of speed, which means you’re not spending a ton of time sharing the same space.

However, you’re also sweating and breathing hard, leaving airborne droplets in your wake.

While outside spaces and solo exercise might mean you can pass on the mask, that’s not the case if you’re going to be within 6-12 feet of others at any time, according to an NPR article.

When you’re working out inside, such as in a gym, the calculations are different. Current data suggests that possibly infectious droplets linger longer indoors. Many gyms, and some states or counties, are also requiring patrons to be masked when not using cardio equipment.

Generally, carry your mask with you if you’re going to be exercising, inside or outdoors. Be prepared to mask-up if passing within 6 feet of others or as your fitness center requires.

Should I Wear a Mask When at a Socially Distant Gathering?

Probably? This gets tricky, depending on how your get together is set up. If you’re spaced properly and not sharing anything at all, you could possibly unmask and be okay.

However, if you’re planning in sharing food or using a shared bathroom, a mask is likely a good idea. Plan to mask up when you visit the potluck table or if you go inside to use the restroom.

Can I Call Out Someone for Not Wearing a Mask?

How well do you know this person? If it’s a close friend or family member, you could say something. Definitely say something if you see them doing risky behavior that could endanger others.

If you’re out in public and the person in question is a complete stranger, it’s more complicated. First, it’s awkward and can come off as judgmental. Plus, you don’t know if there are underlying health reasons behind their actions.

One step you can safely take is to approach a store employee and ask about their mask policy. This is a great way to handle your concerns, especially if you observe potentially unsafe behavior like frequent coughing.

What About On-Base Mask Wearing?

In early April the DOD issued a recommendation that all personnel wear face masks when unable to maintain 6 feet of space between others.

“The Department of Defense urges individuals on DOD property, installations and facilities to wear cloth face coverings when a 6-foot social distance cannot be maintained to help prevent the spread of COVID-19,” Navy Cmdr. (Dr.) Cameron J.L. Nelson, chief of DHA’s occupational medicine branch, said”

This guidance, issued on April 5, follows information published by the CDC. 

Each military service has issued guidance about the specific face masks troops are allowed to wear and when they must be worn. Generally, masks should be “conservative” on color and free of offensive slogans, non-military patterns and drug use. In addition, they should not be full-face covers, though balaclavas pulled up over the nose and mouth are generally allowed.

Overall the DOD recommends following the CDC guidelines for wearing face masks:

  • Wear masks indoors
  • Wear masks outdoors when unable to physically distance yourself from others
  • Wear masks when exercising indoors or when passing within 10-12 feet of others while outside

What are your concerns or questions about mask etiquette? We’d love to help clear things up!

Dogs Offer Support and Companionship During COVID-19 Pandemic

07/13/2020 By Military Life Administrator

If you or your loved one suffers from PTSD, the COVID-19 pandemic can have an effect on their symptoms. The ways we keep safe during this pandemic by sheltering in place, staying away from loved ones and wearing masks can increase anxiety. According to the National Center for PTSD, here are some ways the pandemic can affect those suffering from PTSD:

  • Health and Safety – Many people have concerns about their health and safety during a pandemic but for those with PTSD it can be more intense or more frequent. They may find themselves more anxious even in places they felt safe in the past. There may be more worry about catching the illness. Open public places can be a trigger and those suffering may be more “keyed up” than normal about things other than COVID-19.
  • Trauma Triggers – All the talk of COVID – 19 and the constant discussion of it on the news night after night like it is a battle or war can be triggering. If the trauma involved difficulty breathing, wearing a mask can induce panic or other symptoms.
  •  Avoiding Things That Are Safe – There are plenty of things we can’t do now because of the pandemic but you or your loved one may find themselves avoiding shopping or exercising outside which are considered safe or isolating more than necessary by not communicating over video or telephone.
  •  Negative Thoughts and Feelings May Increase – Some examples are feeling you have no control over anything due to COVID-19. Activities you normally do to control your symptoms may not be available to you causing irritability. Spending more time with loved ones than usual can cause a short fuse. Feelings of guilt and shame can arise over not being able to do something for yourself.
  • Sleep and Concentration – You may find falling asleep or concentrating more difficult due to the pandemic. An increase in PTSD symptoms can effect the quality of your sleep.

Visit the Veterans Administration’s The National Center for PTSD for more information and resources available during the COVID-19 Pandemic.

There has not been enough research on whether dogs help treat PTSD but owning a dog helps you feel less stress, lifts your mood, and helps you feel better by providing companionship. All owners including those with PTSD can receive these benefits. Some treatments for PTSD include the use of service dogs or emotional support dogs but these are not substitutes for effective PTSD treatment. According to The National Center for PTSD, here are some other benefits:

  • Help bring out feelings of love.
  • Are good companions.
  • Take orders well when trained. This can be very comfortable for a Servicemember or Veteran who was used to giving orders in the military.
  • Are fun and can help reduce stress.
  • Are a good reason to get out of the house, spend time outdoors, and meet new people.

The VA does not provide service dogs but it does provide veterinary care for service dogs (not emotional support animals or pets) that are medically necessary for Veterans with permanent physical conditions. The VA has an ongoing research study on dogs and PTSD which will take several years. If the research determines that use of service dogs is beneficial for PTSD then the VA will provide veterinary care for these dogs.

For those interested in adopting a dog to help combat feelings of isolation during this pandemic here are some resources:

Pets for Patriots –  This organizational helps Veterans adopt a dog or cat from local shelters as a pet and they are not service animals. You must have a DD-214 to determine eligibility. If you are accepted into their program there are lots of benefits that can help reduce the costs of pet care. They will help you find, adopt and afford a pet. From their website, benefits include:

  • ADOPTION SPECIAL – Our shelter partners provide at least one additional benefit to you upon adoption, such as pet training, ‘day one’ essentials or adoption fee discounts.
  • DISCOUNTED PET CARE – Every one of our veterinary partners offers a minimum ongoing 10% fee discount for the care of pets adopted through our program.
  • MEMBERS-ONLY DISCOUNTS – We curate exclusive discounts from high-quality pet e-tailers to help veterans in our program save money on pet health insurance, treats, pet food, medication and supplies from trusted brands.
  • ‘WELCOME HOME’ GIFT CARD – We give a one-time $150 pet retailer e-gift to help with the purchase of pet food, supplies, and essentials, and which can be used online or in-store. Arrangements available for veterans without internet access.
  • PRE-ADOPTION COUNSELING – Have questions about pet adoption, our program, or just need a ‘helping paw’ at the shelter? Our team is available to make your pet adoption process as smooth as possible.
  • POST-ADOPTION FOLLOW UP – We’ve got your six! While our official follow up occurs over a one-year period, we’re always here if you have questions, need information or other pet-related assistance.
  • VIP PETCARE PARTNERSHIP – Veterans who adopt an eligible dog or cat through Pets for Patriots now have access to additional savings on affordable, routine, preventative veterinary care through our partnership with VIP Petcare.

Pets for Vets – Veterans must go to their website to apply. This program provides a four step process called ‘Super Bond’. It helps a Veteran find the perfect pet for their situation in four steps:

  • Step 1 Getting to Know the Veteran – They spend time with the Veteran to learn about what will be the best pet fit for them based on lifestyle, personality, and needs. This helps them pick the perfect Pet for the Veteran.
  • Step 2 Getting to Know the Veteran – The next step involves getting to know the animal so they can find the best fit for the Veteran.
  • Step 3 Training – Founder Clarissa Black designed a training program using positive reinforcement training philosophy. This helps the Veteran and the dog build trust and respect while not using force.
  • Step 4 The Match – This is the day that brings the Veteran and their new pet together.

American Humane – First to Serve – This is an organization devoted to the safety and welfare of animals and it has a variety of military initiatives. One is theirPups4Patriots which rescues unwanted dogs and trains them to be service dogs for veterans with PTSD and TBI. They also do grants to help Veterans pay for and care for a service dog and help navigate the applications process for a PTS service dog. Currently there are no national standards for PTS service dogs which leads to many obstacles for Veterans. American Humane is leading an effort to create national training standards and advocate for the rights of Veterans and their dogs.

A pet can be a great way to help those suffering from isolation during the COVID-19 pandemic. If you’d like to help any of these organizations accept volunteers or donations to help with their missions.

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com

Bill to Improve Specially Adaptive Housing Grants Program for Disabled Veterans Stalled in Congress

07/13/2020 By Military Life Administrator

On March 26, 2020, the Senate passed the Ryan Kules and Paul Benne Specially Adaptive Housing Improvement Act of 2019. This was a different version of the bill which the House passed on July 23, 2019. With the Senate changes the bill is now at the House where it is waiting a final vote. The bill changes the current program by allowing blind veterans to use the program, increases funding from about $85,000 to about $98,000, and it extends access to the funding from three times to six times.

According to the news release from Senator Jerry Moran’s (R-Kan.) office who sponsored a Senate version of the bill with Senator Kyrsten Sineme (D-Ariz.), the bill was introduced to expand Specially Adapted Housing (SAH) eligibility for seriously injured or ill veterans. It was named after Army Colonel (Ret.) Paul Benne, MD, MPH. The companion legislation was introduced by U.S. Representatives Gus Bilirakis (FL-12), David Roe (TN-01) and Mike Levin (CA-49),to the House and named the Ryan Kules Specially Adaptive Housing Improvement Act of 2019.

“This legislation will serve veterans who may need similar assistance to that received by Colonel Benne by expanding SAH eligibility qualifications for seriously ill or injured veterans,” said Sen. Moran. “This modernized and expanded grant program will allow veterans to utilize vital SAH grants in a way that best fit their needs – providing greater support and improving the quality of life for many of our nation’s veterans. Thank you to Colonel Benne and his wife, Christine, for their decades of selfless service to our nation and for their advocacy, resiliency and willingness to share their story, which will undoubtedly help many veterans in the future.”

“Many veterans carry wounds from their service that make everyday life more challenging,” said Sen. Sinema.“That is why our bill is so important; it breaks down barriers and helps veterans access the specially adaptive housing benefits they’ve earned.”

Col. (Ret.) Benne received a rating of 100 percent disabled when he retired from the U.S. Army after 23 years due to a medical condition. He applied for a SAH grant to help pay for the costs of making his home wheelchair adaptable. After trying for more than a year to receive a grant through this program he reached out to Sen. Moran’s office for assistance. After three months Sen. Moran’s office was able to help Benne achieve a favorable decision on his claim. The legislation was developed to help other veterans facing the same issues Benne had while navigating the process. At the time Benne said, “Sen. Moran is good about putting veterans first. “This SAH grant has given me the ability to stay at home and my family the ability to better care for me. As my disease continues to change, the ability to change my surroundings will be met with this legislation.”

Currently Blind Veterans do not have access to an SAH grant. This bill will allow them to participate in the grant program. Some technology used to adapt a blind person’s home includes safer cooktops, voice-activated thermostats and for those with poor vision special lighting and window treatments.

The bill will also provide access to SAH grants more times for disabled Veterans. This is needed so that when a Veteran moves to a bigger home to accommodate a growing family or moving due to a new job they will have a grant to help with the cost of adapting the new home such as widening hallways and doorways, adding wheelchair ramps or lowing countertops to accommodate a wheelchair. Also, some modifications need upkeep over time such as replacing a wheelchair ramp.

The urgency of getting bills like this passed for our veterans really hit home when Col. (Ret.) Paul Benne for whom this bill was named died in December 2019 at the age of 54.

Marguerite Cleveland is a freelance writer who specializes in human interest and travel stories. She is a military brat, a veteran and now a military spouse.  Her military experience is vast as the daughter of a Navy man who served as an enlisted sailor and then Naval Officer. She served as an enlisted soldier in the reserves and on active duty, then as an Army Officer. She currently serves as a military spouse. She lives in the Pacific Northwest with her husband and two sons. Visit her website www.PeggyWhereShouldIGo.com

Can Military Spouses Be Vocally Politically Active?

07/07/2020 By Meg Flanagan

Military troops and federal employees, to varying degrees, cannot use their roles, positions, uniforms or jobs to support or demean any political party, movement or elected official at the federal and state level. Basically, what it means is that troops can’t say they support or oppose someone while in uniform.

But where does that leave the spouses of military personnel?

Can Military Spouses Be Vocally Politically Active?

Quick answer: yes. You, as an American, citizen have the right to exercise your First Amendment right to free speech during election season.

You can speak out about your political views, support your candidates of choice and join any political marches or protests you’d like.

There are also limits to what you, the non-serving spouse, may display at your home or on your car.

For example, bumper stickers on cars are totally fine, according to an article on The Balance Careers. However, military members, and their families by extension, should avoid large signs, posters or banners on cars, in yards or in homes are not allowed.

Military spouses who also hold a federal job, like a DODEA teacher, also fall under the Hatch Act. The rules regulating political speech and activity are similar to those that military troops must follow. Basically, don’t use your role or position as a federal employee to promote anything politically.

Many Military Spouses Fear Repercussions for Political Views

While military spouses can be visibly politically active, it seems that many abstain out of fear.

Articles on MilitarySpouse, NextGenMilSpouse and Military Families all noted that many spouses avoided being political in order to maintain the status quo. Some have felt that their politics were outside the “norm” or might prevent their spouse from being promoted.

However, your political activity should not impact your spouse’s career since you do not fall under the same political speech regulations as active duty troops.

If you feel more comfortable avoiding political discussions, that is your choice to make. You should not feel as though your political views will impact your spouse’s military career.

Ways You Can Get Politically Involved

Military spouses can get be politically involved in whatever way feels comfortable to you.

Before you jump into the fray, do a little research. Know your political views and research your positions. The Pew Research Center has a comprehensive assessment to help determine which political views, and candidates, match your opinions.

Then reach out to the local organizing committee in your current area. It’s as simple as searching for “political party + location” online. Send an email or use their contact form to get involved. Political organizers are always looking for volunteers!

Finally, follow through. Stay involved and up-to-date on the issues surrounding the upcoming election. Reading newspapers and watching news broadcasts from across the political spectrum can be useful in helping to create an informed opinion.

Military spouses can even run for local office wherever you are stationed. Homefront Rising is a grassroots organization associated with the Military Spouse JD Network to help facilitate this process.

Have you been politically active as a military spouse? Share your experience in the comments!

27 Black Military Entrepreneurs You Need to Know Now

07/06/2020 By Meg Flanagan

***EDIT*** We’d like to address a special thank you to Athena Gonzalez, a military spouse in the UK, for the information and resources she was able to provide in order to support this article and the military spouse community.  Athena had created a similar list back in April and shares it weekly on local and non-local spouse pages. She encourages spouses to email her their business links with a 2 line paragraph description. These businesses are owned and operated by members of our BIPOC community and allies. I have also extended the invitation to members and allies of the LGBTQIA and Disability communities. Here is a link to Athena’s list.

Right now is a crucial time to support small businesses in America, with an extra focus on showing up for Black owned businesses. In our military community, many veterans and military spouses have started amazing businesses through grit and creative thinking.

27 Black Military Entrepreneurs You Need to Know Now

We’ve sourced incredible military-connected businesses that you’re 100% going to love – and that you need to know about right now.

Clothing & Accessories

She Swank owner Lakesha Cole curates high quality apparel and home decor

She Swank

Owner Lakesha Cole, 2014 AFI MSOY and USMC veteran spouse, started She Swank as an online and brick-and-mortar boutique for those in search of a social shopping experience.

Hooked on Micah

Find all the sweetest handmade baby clothes from Hooked on Micah! Founded by Micah, an active duty Air Force service member stationed OCONUS, you’ll find gorgeous baby layettes and clothing. Micah also offers the option to custom order pieces that are just for your little one.

The Unique Bee Boutique

Outfit yourself in stylish level clothes for your busy, modern life with The Unique Bee, an inclusive clothing boutique.

Princess Leah Designs

Add some extra beauty to your look with unique, handcrafted accessories from Princess Leah Designs, located in Richlands, NC. We especially love her creative earrings and stamped text charms!

Honey Bee Hive Shop

For gorgeously unique earrings, shop at Honey Bee Hive! From colorful fabric studs to feathered tassels, this military spouse owned business is ready to add beautiful character to your outfits!

Simplistic Design

UK-based military spouses Crystal Nicole Smith and Jami Floyd are serving their community with custom vinyl designs, available for purchase through the business’s Facebook page and can be shipped to anywhere in the US.

Hush by Tai

Tai Trammel curates a gorgeous online boutique, Hush by Tai, that allows for colorful, chic personal expression. Tai, who is based in the UK, also offers options to support fellow business owners with branding packages at reasonable prices.

Kallie & Co.

Military spouse-owned Kallie & Co. specializes in fair trade-sourced unique footwear. They recently launched a completely vegan line of designer shoes!

Marla Bautista donates a portion of her profits to support homeless communities

The Bautista Project

Marla Bautista, a military spouse, turned her experiences with homelessness as a teen into a business that donates 10% of profits to charity. Shop The Bautista Project for unique home goods, apparel and vinyl items.

Food & Fitness

She Makes Delicious

Save time on meal prepping with this done-for-you service! Chef Nina Bryant, a military veteran, makes delicious meals with locally sourced, whole food ingredients. She Makes Delicious offers incredible meal prep options, all shipped directly to you!

Tatiana Mone

Tatiana is a military spouse offering realistic personal training programs that fit your lifestyle. She’s currently serving as the in-house fitness and nutrition expert for InDependent’s Wellness Lounge and Wellness Summit through 2020.

Mahogany Drinks

Add some yum to your mug with ethically sourced luxury teas, hot chocolates and coffees! Mahogany Drinks also offers beautiful mugs and accessories to make your first sip extra soothing.

Health, Beauty & Self-Care

Ergantos creates gorgeous beauty care packages to up your self-care game

Ergantos

Military spouse Gem Henry provides gorgeous Black-focused beauty, body and hair products with shipping available.

The Kulture Kabinet

Providing bath, beauty and aromatherapy products, the milspouse owned Kulture Kabinet helps families live better through luxury products. There’s even a line just for kids.

True Urembo

This veteran owned skin care line based on botanical ingredients. True Urembo hand crafts their products and are located in North Carolina.

Phor Mars

Owner Eryka Wakanda is on a mission to empower women to embrace their natural beauty through incredible self-care moments. She’s committed to creating all Phor Mars beauty products without harsh chemicals!

Candle Chronicles

Self-love comes in all forms and Candle Chronicles believes in power of fragrance to improve your mood and mindset!

Business & Financial Services

The Social Crown

Kia Young, an MD-based military spouse, guide small businesses to the ideal social media strategies as the CEO of The Social Crown.

MakeHER MilSpouse founders Lakesha Cole, Krystel Spell and Kia Young

MakeHER

Kia Young, Lakesha Cole and Krystel Spell teamed up to create MakeHER, a unique business-owner conference aimed at female military spouses.

Write to Influence Online

Develda Edington supports business owners with custom copy for their websites and print materials as the owner of Write to Influence Online.

Katrina Carrington, CPA

Military spouse Katrina Carrington, along with her team of financial professionals, provides expert accounting and financial advice to families and businesses

Military Influencer Conference

Veteran Curtez Riggs created a conference where military connected influencers and entrepreneurs could network and build their skills. Since 2016, MIC has hosted exciting conferences for business owners in the military community.

Leadership LINKS

A faith-based leadership institute, Leadership LINKS helps individuals channel their talents and passions for the greater community good.

Ingram Financial Management

Attiyya Ingram, AFC, is a military spouse who specializes in making money work for military families.

Find Black-Owned Businesses Near Your Duty Station

There are so many incredible military-connect, Black-owned businesses that it’s impossible to list each and every one in just one article. Which is why we love resources that help us to do the work individually.

The Black Wallet

Military spouse Jasmine Grant launched The Black Wallet to help you find Black-owned businesses in your community. Grant also offers support and services to help entrepreneurs launch their own business!

FindMe Mobile

Military spouse and lawyer Jennifer Brantley, owner of More Than a Mrs., was looking for ways to connect with BIPOC and support local businesses. FindMe Mobile is an app and website designed to connect, collaborate and communicate!

AMSE MilSpouse Black Owned Business Directory

Military spouse Moni Jefferson has long served as a resource and support for entrepreneurs in the military community. With the recent launch of the Association of Military Spouse Entrepreneurs, a small business network, she and co-founder Flossie Hall are also highlighting Black military spouse business owners with a new directory!

Do you have a favorite Black-owned small business with a military connection? Share more information in the comments!

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