I have read a lot of complaints regarding how the schools treat the parent. I just want to ask those that are complaining to really stop and think about what they expect from the schools, how they treat the teachers and how they view their children. As a high school teacher, I never did parent conferences, I had 130 students. I would, however, meet with any parent who reached out and wanted the opportunity to discuss their children. As much as any teacher wants to remain a true professional to their job, it becomes difficult at times. It is difficult because some parents expect too much and place blame on the teachers when their expectations are not met. Please remember, I have a classroom full of 30 other students four classes a day. I want to meet with parents and further the success of their children, but I can't always do it alone, and at times, parents are not willing to do it with me. It never helps when the first person that parents blame is the teacher when the student fails. Think first, am I helping my child by providing a quiet study area, am I ensuring that my child is doing their homework, is my child old enough to be responsible for their own actions? Really think about this. If you still feel that it is the school or teachers fault, request a meeting with the teacher and principal and be nice, express your feelings without blame. Respect begets respect.
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